Signs someone is giving you bad vibes

People are in situations every day where they have to encounter different people in different situations. Many times, the people that they are surrounded by are people that they don't know very well and have to trust them anyway. This could be places like at your work, while shopping or even listening to someone about a job opportunity. You never know what a person's true intentions are so it is important to keep your guard up and trust your instincts when you pick up bad vibes from people. If you are out shopping for a new vehicle, it is especially important to trust your gut when listening to a salesman. It may be difficult for you to pick up on bad vibes if you are a naturally trusting person, so it is important to look for a few key things when talking to a salesman. If he talks very rapidly and rarely looks you in the eye when giving you details about a car, you should be on guard. When you ask questions and he doesn't answer them directly and brings up different topics about the car, then that could be a sign that he is passing on bad vibes to you and is just trying to sell you a car regardless of your interests. Also, when you are at work you may encounter a co-worker trying to get you to help them with something that is outside your normal job description. While it is a great gesture to offer your assistance for projects, especially at a job, it is important to be sure to check with a supervisor or manager before committing to doing tasks outside of your job description. The co-worker may be in line for a promotion and doesn't want to do the work necessary to get that promotion so they turn to you. You will need to listen to their tone of voice and really take into consideration the reason why they need your help. Helping others out is a great way to show that you can work as a team and show leadership, but always trust your gut if someone is giving off a bad vibe and just using you for their benefit. While it is great to always have a positive attitude and be trusting to people, it is not wise to trust everything people say or do because you don't know their intentions. Always look for signs that the person might not be genuine in what they say and if you are getting any bad vibes at all, then trust your gut and walk away from the situation. It may be impossible to truly know the intentions of strangers, but you should be familiar enough with yourself to know when you feel uncomfortable in a situation. Just trust your instincts and you will feel better about yourself knowing that you didn't fall for anything that could hurt you in any way. For more on working with vibes, click here for psychic lessons and psychic answers.

Can you be friends with your ex?

This guest post is by Mara Enid, who writes about getting your ex back with the law of attraction: After breaking up, many couples make promises to remain friends. The urge to remain friends is pushed by the need to keep sharing the good memories that you both had with each other before breaking up. However, the promise to remain friends even after a relationship ending is one of the many broken promises that couples continue to experience. Although some situations require the need to remain friends such as if you were business partners, remaining frank friends is almost impossible. Should you be friends with your ex or it’s all or nothing? Comfort Zone Although it would make things easier for both parties to have a mutual breakup, there are absolutely no mutual breakups. In most occasions, one person is the heartbreaker while the other mulls over the heartbreak for weeks or even months. It is not easy to end a relationship with someone you have shared good and bad times. The urge to remain friends is mostly proposed by the heartbreaker as a truce so that the dumper would not appear to be bad because they are friends. Having it both The proposal to remain friends also gives the dumper the comfort of knowing their ex would still be in their life and thus, they would not lack anything. This allows the dumper to move on with their life easily while having the pleasure of knowing they can take coffee together with the ex while the dumped is constantly reminded of the person who broke their heart. Keeping secrets No matter how you try to remain friends with your ex, you cannot confide on each other. There is absolutely no way you can tell your ex that you are going out on a hot date or even the person in your life has pleasured like no other has ever done in your life. Remaining friends after a relationship ending will only give you a security blanket of knowing your ex is there and you can call them once in a while but in reality you do not know how they are. One sided bitterness One party will always feel bitterness or resentment toward the other and thus, the friendship cannot work out because one party will not be sincere. Jealousy No matter how friend you are with your ex, there is absolutely no way you will be happy for your ex because they have found someone new in their life. The truth of matter is that you cannot stand the moment of watching your ex cuddle with some else. Passion and lust Even if you relationship is basically problem driven, when everything cools down, the passion and sexual chemistry will come back unless you broke up because there was no passion. The lust and passion might force you into a one more night, which will take you back to the square one of how you felt immediately after breakup.